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DEBATEatives: WHO AMONG THESE WOULD YOU PREFER FOR A PARTNER?
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LOL...a real cracker! If I pick husband type 'a' (which most girls will prefer), I just know I cannot withstand the psychological burden having him around will cause me. Money or no money, forgetting my birthday is more sin than the total Hitler committed in his entire lifetime. On the other hand, I don't think my parents spent a premium in my educated life to settle with a man that will keep asking me for money (even if he loves me more than Jesus Christ). I just think I might as well go for the Type A kind of guy. Unfortunate though!
ReplyDeleteThe point is that it depends. For most girls, at the early ages when we the flies are flying and perching all over, we will prefer Type A but as soon as we are setting into the dreaded 35, Type B will be a gift from heaven! Job or no job na only inside your house wey e matter. My policy - grab the right available man once you find hmmm...every other thing can be added unto you. Chikina!
ReplyDeleteI'd be cool with a chick TYPE B kinda girl as long as she has ambition and isn't content with some part time shit job all her life. Cos if she is, then I aint interested. It's not always about their background, it's about their own desire for a career. Let the impoverished parents live off the state, it's not your problem. Just don't marry a girl who is looking to stay home and spend your money. By the way, ladies hate working and that is why it's important to find one that will.
ReplyDeleteI have a good job and I can afford a good household help - so technically neither factor is important if I am to pick Type B
ReplyDeleteI would like a wife/partner who is passionate about life and improving it for herself and others. Someone who can bring out the best in me and for someone who I can do the same.
Someone I can share my joy and sorrow and around whom I can be myself without being judged.
Someone who is loving and compassionate as a person.
If these criteria are met it does not matter if she chooses to stay home or be focused on her career. If she stays at home though I would not want her to 'wait on me' or 'just take care of the home etc' but would prefer she has some passion she is pursuing - it could be community work.
If she is career minded, I would like to make sure she has a work life balance where we get good quality time together often enough. I wouldn't care if she could not do extra household chores.
Oga, you didn't answer the question
DeleteIf you like, show me all the love that will fill 30 lorries, once you cannot contribute to the financial running of our home, no interest. More over the TYPE B girl looks more beautiful even! So Type B **giving her a ring already**
ReplyDeleteI don't what you guys are saying. If I am to answer the question directed to the ladies I would say I would do the Type B so long as he was okay with me making the majority of the purchasing decisions. So if I decide we go PS4 we go PS4 and he forgoes the Xbox. If I decide we are to get a cat and he wants a dog we are getting the cat and thats final. If he wants a say he will need to bring in money as well. Coupled with grooming the kids another thing he will do is cook and clean. Not exactly fair to me. Thats fine if men are okay with that arrangement but I'm certainly not gonna be taken for a ride. Now can the hells open?!
ReplyDeleteSure if I was making more money than him id have no problem. Whatever fits the family best. Just someone sick of the sexist stereotypical gender roles. Women should be able to have careers and men should be able to care for the kids.
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